Sex Toys: A Great Solution to a Sexual Midlife Crisis

Midlife crisis, a term coined by Elliott Jacques in 1965, describes a phase of life between the age of 40-62 where those growing older realize their life is nearing an end, yet they still have so many desires and fantasies. A sexual midlife crisis, on the other hand, may also happen during this time period. This crisis can take many forms, from wanting to try new sexual experiences and experimenting to losing interest in sex completely.

Men and women reach their sexual peaks between their late teen and early 20s before it slowly begins to decline with age. Then around midlife, our bodies hormones begin to change. Women go through menopause, and men undergo andropause or possibly erection changes, both resulting in fewer sex hormones. Not only does this change directly affect sex life, it can directly affect relationships.

Regardless of age, we all want to have a healthy sex life. Luckily, sex toys can add a new dimension to your relationship and help you form a stronger bond.

Better sex, which creates more intimacy.

Whether you’re feeling a little bored using the same moves in the bedroom or you just want to try an exciting new experience in the sheets, sex toys can help you explore new realms and possibilities, creating a stronger sexual bond. There may only be 64 positions in the Kamasutra, but with enough creativity and sex toys as your guide, you might find there are even more than that. There are no strict rules in bed, so let your imagination run wild as you give yourself to your partner. Remember, there is no greater feeling than giving and equally receiving pleasure from the person you love.

Mutual masturbation can be educational, and fun!

We already know that masturbation is overall fantastic for our minds and bodies, but it can also be really hot to watch your partner masturbate. Masturbating with sex toys in front of your partner not only takes the pressure off intercourse, it shows them exactly what you like and teaches them how they can get you off. Men are very visual, so allowing them to watch can be really exciting. And if you’re into someone, you’ll probably be equally interested.

Help with menopause.

For women, menopause can begin as early as 35-years but some don’t reach this phase until their mid-40s. This changes a woman’s body, which can have some terrible effects on sex life. The change in your hormones from menopause change how the body reacts sexually, but vibrators stimulate pelvic blood flow, helping create more vaginal moisture and result in better sex!

Take pressure off a man’s performance.

Men’s bodies go through changes too, not just women. These changes can make them feel inadequate. With sex, it’s often all about how a man performs, but it doesn’t have to be. Sex toys can help a man climax, even if he can’t get an erection. Introducing sex toys to the equation can take the pressure off men to perform, creating a relaxing and fun experience for both partners and enhancing your relationship overall.

Toys can shift the focus in the bedroom for the better.

Sometimes it can be difficult to orgasm, no matter how giving your partner is. According to the Kinsey Institute, 70% of women need clitoral stimulation to achieve an orgasm. By reaching for a little extra help from a vibrator, you can take the pressure off yourself to orgasm.

Plus, many women have some self-consciousness when it comes to sex, including insecurities about their changing bodies. If this is the case, experimenting with blindfolding can help a woman gain more confidence. Blindfolding your lover helps people feel bolder, like they can do and say things without feeling distracted or nervous.

Our bodies change as we age, and there’s really nothing we can do about that. For both men and women, these changes can easily pour over into sex life and cause a divide in couples. Maybe you want to try something new or maybe you just want to figure out how to jump-start a relationship. With sex toys, there’s something for everyone.